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The Power Of Yet

mindset
/ˈmʌɪn(d)sɛt/
noun
1. the established set of attitudes held by someone.

One of the most important elements in success is your mindset.

As a martial arts student, it can be very easy to feel a lack of progression.  Students can often feel frustrated by a bad training session or if they struggle with a certain technique.  And it’s common to hear students say “I’m not good at…” or “I can’t do …”

When a student says this, they’re operating from a Fixed Mindset.  Their belief is that regardless of the amount of training they put in, it’s impossible for them to succeed.

However, by adding one simple word to the end of those sentences / beliefs they can switch to a Growth Mindset and achieve remarkable success.

Chelsea winning the World Championships in 2014

A Better Mindset

The concept of Fixed and Growth mindsets comes from Carol Dweck.  Dweck is a Professor of Psychology at Stanford University and has devoted her career to understanding success.  Here’s Dweck’s definition of Fixed and Growth <indsets from a 2012 interview:

In a Fixed Mindset students believe their basic abilities, their intelligence, their talents, are just fixed traits. They have a certain amount and that’s that, and then their goal becomes to look smart all the time and never look dumb.

In a Growth Mindset students understand that their talents and abilities can be developed through effort, good teaching and persistence.  They don’t necessarily think everyone’s the same or anyone can be Einstein, but they believe everyone can get smarter if they work at it.”

Here is a short video (3 min 50 sec) clearly explains the concept.

Students with a Fixed Mindset believe that success is all that matters and look to competition, exams, and training as proof of this.  Unfortunately, if things don’t go there way they feel like a failure.

Because their self-worth is built upon winning or losing, these individuals will look for opportunities that justify their self-worth rather than challenges which will force them to grow.

This Fixed Mindset can cripple their progress.  They’ll avoid the tougher training partners, skip training if they feel less than 100%, and can resort to cheating in order to win.

A student with a Growth Mindset sees failure as a necessary part of development and relishes opportunities to improve.  In other words, they see effort to improve is their success.

Here is a more complete comparison of the Fixed and Growth Mindsets:

Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset

The Power Of Yet

According to Dweck’s research, the simple addition of “yet” can switch a belief from a Fixed mindset to a Growth mindset.  For example: “I can’t do a back kick” becomes “I can’t do a back kick yet!” Or “I’m not good at press ups” becomes “I’m not good at press ups yet!”

The addition of ‘yet’ implies that in the near future with practice they will succeed.  Dweck’s studies have shown that teaching children the addition of “yet” or “not yet,” results in greater confidence, and creates greater persistence as they see success in the future.

What’s fascinating is that it’s possible change a students’ mindsets.

In one study, Dweck taught students that every time they push out of their comfort zone to learn something new and difficult, the neurons in their brain can form new, stronger connections.  The students who were taught this lesson actually got smarter over time.

Tom Barlow winning European Masters photo by Maggie left

Praise Wisely

For a parent or instructor it’s easy to praise a students successes or talent, and that’s important, but praising these alone is teaching a Fixed Mindset.

Instead, you should praise the learning process, the focus, the perseverance, and the effort that went into achieving that success.

In a recent TED talk, Dweck, sites the astonishing results of students that were praised for effort vs those that were praised for success.

“In one year, fourth grade students in the South Bronx, way behind, became the number one fourth grade class in the state of New York on the state math test.
In a year to a year and a half, Native American students in a school on a reservation went from the bottom of their district to the top, and that district included affluent sections of Seattle.”

Dweck states this happened because that the meaning of effort and difficulty were transformed.

“Before, effort and difficulty made them feel dumb, made them feel like giving up, but now, effort and difficulty, that’s when their neurons are making new connections, stronger connections. That’s when they’re getting smarter.”

(Click Here to watch the TED full talk.)

The Take Aways

Instructors, parents, and students should emphasise improvement and growth rather than success or failure in training or competition when evaluating training progress.

  • A Fixed mindset will limit your growth
  • A Growth mindset believes success comes through effort and continual development
  • Adding ‘yet’ to a statement can shift you from a Fixed mindset to Growth mindset
  • Praise the learning process, perseverance, and effort instead of the success itself.

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Inside The 5-7’s Kids BJJ Curriculum

Here is a short tour of the 5-7’s Kids BJJ Curriculum and how to use the site.

The 5-7’s Kids BJJ Curriculum is on sale until midnight on 5th September 2021. To learn more about the curriculum and get the launch discount click the button below:

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The Sucuri

Grappling has been around for thousands of years. In that time, every way of possibly contorting an opponent will have been discovered.

As a result, I never say I invented anything. Instead, I prefer to think of rediscovering something that was lost or fallen out of fashion. This is exactly the case with the Sucuri.

The Sucuri is a submission / position I started using when my training partners got good at defending my attacks from the back. Unlike a lot submissions from the you don’t realised the danger until its too late and the damage is done.

The nice thing about the Sucuri is if your opponent does realise the danger, their way of defending will lead to either an arm bar or choke. Check out the video below to discover exactly what the Sucuri is and how you can use it to your advantage:

Warning: The Sucuri is a powerful submission when done correctly and puts a huge amount of pressure on your opponent. Please be careful when using it in practice as it can easily injury your training partner.

If you’d like to see the Sucuri in action, check out this breakdown of my first sub-only match

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Lessons Learned In Revenge

When I first started, Jiu Jitsu professional BJJ competitions were a dream. Honestly, I never expected them to become a reality, let alone be invited to fight in them.

So, when I was approached by the guys at the Tuff Invitational I jumped at the chance to compete in a professional Sub-Only competition. Plus I would get to settle a score with an old rival, Paul Bridges, after nearly nine years.

The Arm Bar

Paul is one of the pioneers of UK BJJ, and I had the pleasure (or misfortune) to fight him under MMA rules back in 2006 on a UKMMA show.

This was really the early days of the UK MMA scene, and the competitors were nowhere nearly as well rounded as they are today.

Side note: Paul and I’s fight took place in one of the first cages in the UK. If you watch the video closely you’ll see there is a 3-inch gap between the cage and canvas, and the canvas was actually canvas, it hurt like hell when you grappled on it and left you with severe friction burns. Fun times.

At the time, I was primarily a Kickboxer, although I had done a fair amount of grappling and wasn’t afraid of the ground or to wrestle.

Paul, on the other hand, was already a purple belt and one of the top guys on the UK BJJ scene having won most of the comps available at that time.

It was a classic striker vs. grappler match up, that unfortunately for me, went the same painful way striker vs. grappler matchups go.

Check out the fight below:

This fight and Paul’s beautiful armbar are the main reason’s I got so heavily involved in Jiu Jitsu. I realised if I wanted a future in MMA I’d need to develop my BJJ skills to avoid situations like this happening again.

However, along the way I developed a love for Jiu Jitsu that overtook my desire to compete in MMA and be punched int the face. The rest, as they say, is history.

Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to compete against Paul again. He was always ahead of me in belt rank, and by the time I’d caught up he was focusing on his academy.

I thought I’d never get to test myself against him again.

So, when the guys at the Tuff Invitational asked me who I’d like to fight, Paul was the first person I thought of, and thankfully he agreed.

The Rematch

My preparation for the match against Paul was a little strange. I’d just competed and won the No Gi Worlds for the second time and was in good shape. But I had a distinct lack of high-level training partners and it was still a 6-weeks out from the event so needed to stay in shape.

So, I did what I could and I found a few great people to train with around Devon (which meant a lot of travelling but hey-ho). And when I couldn’t roll, I supplemented with more strength and conditioning sessions.

By the time the fight came around, I was in the best shape I could be in and I had a solid game plan.

That’s an important lesson, many people miss. When you’ve done everything you can in preparation for a fight, you will feel more confident. This is why training camps are essential for creating many people’s positive mindsets.

So, how did the fight go? Well here’s a complete breakdown of the match

The Lessons

Personally, there’s tonne of things I took away from this event, including: not rolling for 40-minutes before a match, fighting on a platform feels like a deathmatch, and several other things.

And there are also a couple of important lessons you can take away from this it too. Here’s four of the most important:

1) Don’t keep driving forwards if you head gets caught during a takedown attempt. Instead, shuck your head out by turning towards your head towards the body. Here’s Braulio Estima demonstrating the technique:

2) Don’t wait when you’re passing guard. Instead, immediately go on the offensive and start to pass. This forces your opponent to defend your pass not whatever you did to get there.

3) Put yourself in a position where your opponent is forced to defend multiple things. Your opponent can only really defend one thing at a time, so if you have two attacking options, they will have to give you one.

This is the reason I was able to submit Paul. I forced him to defend the armbar, Sucuri, and his neck.

You may never have seen this submission before, it’s a little unusual but the Sucuri is incredibly painful. You can learn The Sucuri HERE.

4. Do your best to prepare for a match. Even if you don’t have a lot of time, or training partners, or whatever, the knowledge you’ve done everything you can to prepare for an event is incredibly beneficial to your mindset when competing.

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The Egg

A Simple Way To Develop Water-Tight Defences

I remember when Alex started training Jiu Jitsu. He was athletic, good at scrambling, and had the heart of a lion.Because of these attributes, if he got on top, he would often catch his training partners in submissions or

However, the moment he got stuck on his back defending, he turned from a mat monster into something more like Bambi skating on ice. His arms and legs would be everywhere, and he’d try and bench press his partners off instead of using a solid technique.

Inevitably his opponents would pass his defences like butter and end up in a strong attacking position.

And at some point in your Jiu Jitsu journey, I’m sure you’ll have experienced this too. You got stuck on the bottom, and no matter how hard you fight your opponent breaches your defences and squash you like a bug.

Often the problem is not your ability to sweep or submit your opponent, instead, the problem is you are exposing your defences and making yourself vulnerable to attacks

A few years ago, I noticed this was a common problem in my beginner students. So set about creating a way to help teach them basic positional defence and guard recovery.

Enter The Egg Drill

After a little trial and error, the Egg was born (maybe laid is apter)

The fundamental principle behind the egg is to create a defensive shell. To do this you keep your elbows and knees tight to your body, and your chin tucked.

If you do this correctly, it becomes incredibly difficult for your partner to attack you regardless of the positionthey are in plus they will find it tough to stabilise any dominant position.

Now, before we go any further, this is just a drill or concept. It is not supposed to be specific technique, and if you’re sparring I would not advise you using this as your primary form of attack

However, if you are continually getting your guard passed or easily submitted, practising this drill will be of great benefit to you.

Essentially, there are three parts to this drill with each part building on the last. The drill starts by teaching you how to keep your defences tight, then progresses with how to recover guard, and finishes with how to you can use the concept in sparring situations.

Below you’ll find the thought process behind each part of the drill and video outline how to perform it.

Part 1: Understanding The Egg

The first part of the drill is simply getting used to keeping a tight defensive and demonstrate how easy it can be. To do this, you have to keep your elbows and knees tight to your body and keep your chin tucked in tight.

There should be no space for your partner to get inside of the frame and they shouldn’t be able to separate your limbs from your body.

When you can do this effectively, it becomes very hard for you opponent to set up any submission opportunities or stabilise a dominant position.

The video below shows how to perform part 1 of the Egg drill. The first time you do this, it’s a good idea to start slowly and gradually increase the pressure as your partner develops the defensive capabilities.

Part 2: Defending The Egg

Once you get comfortable with the defensive position, the next step is to stop them getting around your guard.

It is impossible for your opponent to be attacking both sides of your body at once. Consequently, you can use the side they’re not attacking to defend your opponents pass attempts or recover guard.

The second part of the drill is the start of integrating the Egg concept into sparring. Check out the video below to see exactly how to do part 2 of the drill.

Part 3: Opening The Egg

Obviously, keeping your hands connected to your shins and your legs tucked into your body isn’t an effective way to play Jiu Jitsu. Consequently, the final part of the drill is all about how you use the Egg concept within your Jiu Jitsu.

The video below shows how to perform part 3 of the Egg drill.

How To Become One With The Egg

Like almost technique or concept in Jiu Jitsu, you need to practice the Egg to make it instinctive and be able to use it when you need to.

However, this is relatively easy. Simply take some time before or after your regular Jiu Jitsu training and practiceeach of the drills in order.

A short training plan (less than 15 minutes) could look something like this.

The Egg Part 1: 2 x 1 min rounds (alternate attacker and defender)
The Egg Part 2: 2 x 1 min rounds (alternating)
The Egg Part 3: 2 x 1 min rounds (alternating)

Remember, gradually increase the intensity as your partner improves, and if your partner is struggling to take the intensity back a notch.

If you did this plan for a month I can guarantee your guard retention and defence would increase dramatically. This short training plan also at as a great warm up for any guard training or defensive work.

If you enjoyed this article or found it useful, leave a comment below and let me know. I always appreciate the feedback.

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